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The Quality of Love

ISBN 9780715655924 Published 25 September 2025
£10.99

'Oh, what lives they both led!' Spectator

'Enriched by the correspondence between the twins – for, ultimately, the great love story is theirs alone' Telegraph

A TLS Book of the Year

When her mother Celia Paget died, Ariane Bankes inherited a battered trunk stuffed with letters and diaries belonging to Celia and her twin Mamaine. This correspondence charted the remarkable lives of the Paget sisters and their friends and lovers, including Arthur Koestler, Albert Camus, Sartre and de Beauvoir, and George Orwell. 

Out of this rich archive, The Quality of Love weaves the story of these captivating and unusually beautiful identical twins who overcame a meagre education to take 1930s London society by storm and move among Europe’s foremost intellectuals during the twentieth century’s most dramatic decades. Above all, it is a sparkling portrait of the deep connection between two spirited sisters.

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Book details
Format
Paperback
ISBN
9780715655924
Published
25 September 2025
Pages
288
Dimensions
129 x 198 mm
Genre
Memoir and Biography
Imprint
Duckworth

Reviews

'The record of their lives is frankly extraordinary: a quality shared by Bankes’s book... The book’s a dazzler’

TLS

'[A] rather delicious and sympathetic book... the pleasure of The Quality of Love lies in the details, in the sometimes startling small print of the sisters' relationships... all her characters are sketched so effortlessly; you see them, and you even smell them (Orwell reeks of sardines)... there wasn't a moment when I didn't relish being in their company' Rachel Cooke, 

Observer

'Lives at the intellectual heart of the mid-20th century... Part of the book’s fascination lies in the domestic side of these intellectuals... Oh, what lives they both led!'

Spectator

'Taking us from the high bohemia of 1930s London to the European intellectual scene of the 1940s and 1950s, Ariane Bankes weaves a story as spirited and alluring as the Paget sisters at its centre' 

Antonia Fraser

'An irresistible family memoir... gripping, tactfully told and moving'

Lucy Beckett, TLS (Books of the Year)

'An enthralling insight into the intellectual life of Europe as it struggled to recover from the Second World War'

Tony Rennell, Daily Mail (Best Biographies of 2024)

'An enchanting double-helix biography ... Without undermining [its] scholarly significance and rigor, let me note that this relatively slender book contains enough mad capers, heaving proposals and dramatic death throes to be a veritable Harlequin romance for the literary set' 

Alexandra Jacobs, New York Times

'Ariane Bankes supplies a succinct and affectionate portrait of the interconnected literary worlds inhabited by her mother, Celia, and aunt, Mamaine, who, while hobnobbing with everyone from George Orwell and Cyril Connolly to Albert Camus and Jean-Paul Sartre, remained distinctive personalities in their own right' 

D. J. Taylor, TLS Books of the Year

'The sisters’ charms and talent for friendship are evident, as various stars of the postwar European intellectual firmament pass through the book’s pages. Most of all, though, it is enriched by the correspondence between the twins – for, ultimately, the great love story is theirs alone'

Telegraph

'Ariane Bankes has painted a wonderfully rich and lovingly nuanced portrait of her mother and aunt, devoted twins, whose lives and loves traversed the intellectual currents and crises of mid twentieth-century Europe’ 

Rupert Christiansen

‘A sophisticated, cultured cast of writers and thinkers are convincingly woven together through the fascination of the Paget twins, who are the magnetic centre of the story... The Quality of Love conjures a treasure trove of characters who were at the heart of their age’ 

Virginia Nicholson, author of Among the Bohemians

'A work of art as well as a fount of tantalising gossip'

Michael Scammell

‘The Quality of Love illuminates an intoxicating, almost lost world as never before, but its emotional heartbeat lies in the indissoluble trajectory of sibling love running through the lives of the magnetic Paget twins’

 Juliet Nicolson, journalist and author of A House Full of Daughters

'Bankes' memoir brings these beautiful, vivacious and smart women to life with tenderness, intelligence and joie de vivre. And it's an absolute must-read for any fans of Nancy Mitford's The Pursuit of Love - this is the real-life version!' 

Lucy Scholes, Prospect

‘A whirlwind of a biography … far stranger than fiction’

The Lady

'A fascinating slice of social history seen through the lives of two dynamic, glamorous sisters. The Quality of Love also provides intriguing revelations about some of the great thinkers of the mid-twentieth century – George Orwell, Arthur Koestler, and Albert Camus – who were dazzled by the Paget twins. Hugely enjoyable'

Julia Parry, author of award-winning The Shadowy Third

 '[A] deftly written memoir' 

Literary Review

'[A] highly entertaining and informative book' 

Sue Gaisford, The Tablet 

About the author

Ariane Bankes

Ariane Bankes had a long career in publishing, including at John Murray and V&A Publishing, before becoming a writer, critic and curator. Her writing has appeared in the Spectator, TLS, Financial Times, Country Life and Slightly Foxed. She sits on the boards of Koestler Arts, the Leche Trust and the Biographers’ Club, where she runs the Slightly Foxed Best First Biography Prize and the Tony Lothian Prize.

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